The Blog

October 18, 2018

If Sex Is A Color, What Will Your Color Be?

I’m weaving a piece of kente cloth. Yellow, white, black, red, green, grey and gold pieces of strings weaving their way to fabricating a masala of […]
September 28, 2018

Are We Going to Have Sex Or Not?

Disclaimer: Read now, pass judgement later. I invited her over for the evening because I liked her, I needed the company and I wanted to get […]
September 6, 2018

5 Lies Ghanaian Women Tell Most Of The Time

Ah, Ghanaian women. So sexy and spicy! So cultured and mysterious!  Here is the deal, Ghanaian men, myself included, lie fifty times more than our women. […]
September 3, 2018

10 Things Every African Man Needs To Know About Makeup & Women

When you ask an African man what is the most important thing he looks for in a partner, none will ever say “high arched eyebrows.” If […]
September 1, 2018

I Cheated. She Caught Me. An Hour Later, The Unexpected Happens.

Disclaimer: I cannot be held responsible for the words below as apparently, my dogs have learned how to type.  I was on my knees in the wee […]
September 1, 2018

Sex & Saturday Mornings

There’s no denying it, this post is a rant so I will keep it short. Being single has never bothered me and I honestly don’t mind […]
August 17, 2018

Look At Me…While We Do It

Disclaimer: The views I will attempt to express here are totally worthless and you will gain absolutely nothing from reading this article. However, if you swing […]
August 11, 2018

The African Bachelor Is Back!! Who The Heck Cares?

Hey there! It’s me, your long-lost blogger crazy friend. Holy Crap! I’m back and more phucked that ever! I’m trying to blow the dust off my […]
March 21, 2018

20 Things Ghanaian Divorcees & Single Parents Want You To Know About Marriage & Relationships

*This article is in commemoration of world single parents day on March 21st. Like most people, I hardly paid attention to the advice people shared about marriage […]
February 22, 2018

You Look Like A Fool If He Cheats, Says He’s Sorry & You Forgive Him: The Ugly Truth

I’m just going to cut to the chase; if a man cheats on you and he says sorry and you forgive him, you may look like […]
February 2, 2018

6 Reasons To Hate February

So, we are officially in February. Arhhhhhh! What is up with this month anyway?  For starters, this month can never seem to make up its mind […]
January 25, 2018

5 Of The Toughest Questions Women Have Asked Me

“Does this dress make my tushie look big?” This inquiry is one of the cruelest questions women continue to ask men. The answer will always be […]
December 20, 2017

It’s Time For This Bachelor To Settle Down: New Beginnings

Wow, it has been a crazy ride. Seems like yesterday when I made that ominous decision to write about my relationships and share a piece of […]
December 14, 2017

50 Reasons Not To Get Married: For My African Brothers Only

I’m an unapologetic bachelor and I’m sorry that I’m not sorry about my single lifestyle. If there’s anything my experiences have taught me, most married men regret […]
December 6, 2017

5 Ways You Can Accidentally Become Someone’s Boyfriend

There’s a scary moment in every relationship when things starts to get serious and you’re not mentally prepared for the next level. Here is the thing, […]
November 23, 2017

It’s 2017, An Era Of Equality. Why Are Men Still Paying For Women On Dates?

“I will take the check please.” These are the six words I know to utter each time when it’s getting to the end of a lunch […]
October 22, 2017

The Argument That Men Cheat With Women & As A Result, Women Are Also Cheaters Is Flawed

The notion that men cheat with women and as a result, women are also cheaters is seriously flawed and counter-productive. Whenever the scourge of attached men cheating […]
October 15, 2017

Cheating: Why Men Focus On The Quantity Of Sex & Women Focus On The Quality Of Sex

As a disclaimer, I’m just going to say that I recognize that the act of cheating and the reasoning cannot be categorized by gender scientifically.  I […]
October 6, 2017

The Day Of My Engagement Ceremony

Look at that beaming smile! This image perfectly captured my excitement at my engagement ceremony in Accra a couple of years ago.  It was the day […]
September 30, 2017

A Beautiful Ghanaian Woman With A 1st Class Qualification Status Cannot Be Trusted

In an ironic way, Prince Kofi Amoabeng, founder and Chief Executive Officer of UT Bank was quite right in his cynicism about the authenticity of the First class […]
September 24, 2017

An Open Letter To Married Men Chasing Single Women

Dear Married Men Chasing Single Women, Let me start with a resounding applause for daring to take the giant leap into the institution of marriage. My […]
September 19, 2017

Why are there are no manuals for men on how to handle a cheating wife or girlfriend?

Fellas, when was the last time you saw a manual about how we should react or act when our women cheat on us? I am at […]
September 18, 2017

Money For Sex; Sex For Money

Sex and money; money and sex.  Almost every culture on earth becomes engrossed in the pairing of these two subjects and for very good reasons. Dating […]
September 15, 2017

How The PepperDemMinistries Successfully Flipped The Script On Me

I’ve had countless conversations with women over the years. These conversations have ranged from terrible to terrific and everything in between.  Without a doubt, one of […]
September 14, 2017

The Whispers Of 3 Sexual Assault Victims In Ghana & The Men Who Got Away

The stories of most rape victims play out like the myth of Sisyphus in Greek mythology. A woman is sexually assaulted by a friend or a […]
September 9, 2017

Payback Can Be Sweet But Karma Is Not The Same Thing

I could not have picked a better time to discuss the true meaning of karma.  I have watched with keen interest as an inordinate amount of […]
September 5, 2017

I’m About To Delete People Off My Friends List & Other Unnecessary Posts On Facebook

While the cool people of the social media world have mostly migrated to other platforms like Instagram and Snapchat, there are still those of us stragglers who still […]
September 1, 2017

Akua Highly-Favored; A Medley Of Sex, Religion & Authenticity

She goes by Akua God-Creation as the first name and Highly-favored for the last name on Facebook. Catchy, isn’t it? How do you mistake a chick […]
August 26, 2017

Let Her Go

Hello there!  Thanks for clicking on my post. The title of the article made you curious, didn’t it? You are here to find out about letting […]
August 21, 2017

Is Celebrating The Achievements Of Women in Male-dominated Roles The Wrong Approach?

A few weeks ago, I sat back and observed with a touch of curiosity and amusement as the picture of a female aircraft mechanical engineer,  Fatima […]