Fellas, when was the last time you saw a manual about how we should react or act when our women cheat on us?
I am at the bookstore often and online a bit but I’ve never run across any manuals on the subject.
There are plenty of manuals for women on how to deal with infidelity so why can’t I find any for men? Surely there must be some experts who assist men in dealing with women cheating on them, right?
There must be a manual or two out there but we fellas won’t know about them. Do you know why?
We don’t read shit like that!
Why should we? We rarely suspect our women of cheating because they won’t dare cheat on us. We have zero uses for manuals on what to do if a woman cheats.
Our women don’t cheat. The privilege and opportunities to cheat are reserved for fellas alone. Fellas are the only ones who are lousy at controlling their desires.
We don’t need any fucking manuals!
Hold up! Perhaps the lack of manuals on female infidelity has caused our deduction abilities to dim and as a result, women are getting away with excuses that would otherwise sound highly suspicious.
Perhaps we are too busy sowing our wild oats outside the home to notice that our women are getting sexier and sexier.
Could a mysterious fling be responsible for why she no longer nags when I come home late or fail to initiate sex for weeks?
Oh, shoot! There are empowered women out there today and they have the power to be as unfaithful as us.
While we were basking in our male privileges and our denials, empowered women said “Fuck it!” and seized on the opportunity to escape the same realities of marriage and relationships reserved just for us.
The playing field is even now but I don’t think our attitudes towards women cheating has caught up yet to the changing times. We need to wake the freak up!
Someone better write that manual for the fellas quickly. Someone needs to get on this right away!
We need experts; we need Steve Harvey, we need Oprah, we need Mama Zimbi!
If someone writes the manual, please inbox me so I can send you my address.
Shoot! I will need a copy asap!
By Kwadjo Panyin
Kwadjo Panyin is a Ghanaian born relationship and lifestyle blogger located in Los Angeles, California. He holds three degrees; a Bachelors degree from Rutgers University in New Jersey, an MBA from Franklin University in Ohio and a Masters of Science degree from Northern Kentucky University in Kentucky. Kwadjo is a business professional who blogs for fun. His articles are about the challenges of dating and relationship anomalies. Writing, blogging, world travel, and photography are his favorite hobbies.