The Blog

December 14, 2017

50 Reasons Not To Get Married: For My African Brothers Only

I’m an unapologetic bachelor and I’m sorry that I’m not sorry about my single lifestyle. If there’s anything my experiences have taught me, most married men regret […]
December 12, 2017

Do You Know The Difference Between A Player And A Ladies Man?

What’s the difference between a player and a ladies man? What’s the difference between that suave and charming bad boy who all the women want versus the loathsome […]
December 6, 2017

5 Ways You Can Accidentally Become Someone’s Boyfriend

There’s a scary moment in every relationship when things starts to get serious and you’re not mentally prepared for the next level. Here is the thing, […]
December 5, 2017

Ghanaian Man Searching For Love In Hawaii

To start this off, I have to be honest with my readers about a promise I made five weeks ago. When I visited Hawaii last month, […]
December 5, 2017

5 Ways You Can Accidentally Become Someone’s Boyfriend

There’s a scary moment in every relationship when things starts to get serious and you’re not mentally prepared for the next level. Here is the thing, […]
November 25, 2017

Sex, Coffee & Attachment Anxieties: A Year In The Life Of An African Bachelor

I love sex and coffee and I have attachment anxiety issues. Seeking a committed relationship wasn’t on the list of my top priorities in 2017.  The […]
November 23, 2017

It’s 2017, An Era Of Equality. Why Are Men Still Paying For Women On Dates?

“I will take the check please.” These are the six words I know to utter each time when it’s getting to the end of a lunch […]
November 18, 2017

My Condom Broke. Now What?

Last night, I went through my bedroom chest drawers and dumped every condom I could find in the trash. I had not screwed in a long […]
November 10, 2017

Ewuradwoa, Just Give Me 10 Minutes!

Ewuradwoa,  you know I want to bend you over a table. From the moment I first saw you, junior ordered me to bend you over and […]
November 3, 2017

The Girl With No Panties

A long time ago,  a beautiful woman I knew wore a skirt to a party we were both attending.  We hugged for a little longer than […]
October 27, 2017

In Bed With Married Couples: My Experience In Hawaii

A few months ago,  I wrote a blog titled “Marriage, what’s the point?”  This blog was molded and sculptured at the height of my cynicism about […]
October 22, 2017

The Argument That Men Cheat With Women & As A Result, Women Are Also Cheaters Is Flawed

The notion that men cheat with women and as a result, women are also cheaters is seriously flawed and counter-productive. Whenever the scourge of attached men cheating […]
October 15, 2017

Cheating: Why Men Focus On The Quantity Of Sex & Women Focus On The Quality Of Sex

As a disclaimer, I’m just going to say that I recognize that the act of cheating and the reasoning cannot be categorized by gender scientifically.  I […]
October 6, 2017

The Day Of My Engagement Ceremony

Look at that beaming smile! This image perfectly captured my excitement at my engagement ceremony in Accra a couple of years ago.  It was the day […]
October 3, 2017

Her: We Can’t Have Sex. I’m On My Period; Me: Just Grab A Towel

Disclaimer: Read at your own risk! Seriously, I’m not messing with you.  If I put up a disclaimer on a blog, it’s because I am giving you […]
September 30, 2017

A Beautiful Ghanaian Woman With A 1st Class Qualification Status Cannot Be Trusted

In an ironic way, Prince Kofi Amoabeng, founder and Chief Executive Officer of UT Bank was quite right in his cynicism about the authenticity of the First class […]
September 24, 2017

An Open Letter To Married Men Chasing Single Women

Dear Married Men Chasing Single Women, Let me start with a resounding applause for daring to take the giant leap into the institution of marriage. My […]
September 19, 2017

Why are there are no manuals for men on how to handle a cheating wife or girlfriend?

Fellas, when was the last time you saw a manual about how we should react or act when our women cheat on us? I am at […]
September 18, 2017

Money For Sex; Sex For Money

Sex and money; money and sex.  Almost every culture on earth becomes engrossed in the pairing of these two subjects and for very good reasons. Dating […]
September 15, 2017

How The PepperDemMinistries Successfully Flipped The Script On Me

I’ve had countless conversations with women over the years. These conversations have ranged from terrible to terrific and everything in between.  Without a doubt, one of […]
September 14, 2017

The Whispers Of 3 Sexual Assault Victims In Ghana & The Men Who Got Away

The stories of most rape victims play out like the myth of Sisyphus in Greek mythology. A woman is sexually assaulted by a friend or a […]
September 9, 2017

Payback Can Be Sweet But Karma Is Not The Same Thing

I could not have picked a better time to discuss the true meaning of karma.  I have watched with keen interest as an inordinate amount of […]
September 5, 2017

I’m About To Delete People Off My Friends List & Other Unnecessary Posts On Facebook

While the cool people of the social media world have mostly migrated to other platforms like Instagram and Snapchat, there are still those of us stragglers who still […]
September 1, 2017

Akua Highly-Favored; A Medley Of Sex, Religion & Authenticity

She goes by Akua God-Creation as the first name and Highly-favored for the last name on Facebook. Catchy, isn’t it? How do you mistake a chick […]
August 26, 2017

Let Her Go

Hello there!  Thanks for clicking on my post. The title of the article made you curious, didn’t it? You are here to find out about letting […]
August 25, 2017

How About A 3 Some?

Disclaimer: The preceding article is intended for mature audiences only (excluded are the overly religious and those who take life too seriously).  Readers discretion is strongly […]
August 25, 2017

Three Is Not A Crowd In Bed: Or Is It?

Disclaimer: The preceding article is intended for mature audiences only (excluded are the overly religious and those who take life too seriously).  Readers discretion is strongly […]
August 24, 2017

My Pen is Up & Wants To Talk To You

My pen is a douchebag! Yeah, I know you heard me down there. I don’t really give a crap if your feelings are hurt. My pen […]
August 21, 2017

Is Celebrating The Achievements Of Women in Male-dominated Roles The Wrong Approach?

A few weeks ago, I sat back and observed with a touch of curiosity and amusement as the picture of a female aircraft mechanical engineer,  Fatima […]
August 8, 2017

3 Unbelievable Ways Some Women Go From Point “A” to Point “O”

Warning: this article contains strong language (which may be unsuitable for bible-toting adults),  unusual humor (which may be unsuitable for adults who take life too seriously), […]