The Blog

October 15, 2017

Cheating: Why Men Focus On The Quantity Of Sex & Women Focus On The Quality Of Sex

As a disclaimer, I’m just going to say that I recognize that the act of cheating and the reasoning cannot be categorized by gender scientifically.  I […]
October 6, 2017

The Day Of My Engagement Ceremony

Look at that beaming smile! This image perfectly captured my excitement at my engagement ceremony in Accra a couple of years ago.  It was the day […]
October 3, 2017

Her: We Can’t Have Sex. I’m On My Period; Me: Just Grab A Towel

Disclaimer: Read at your own risk! Seriously, I’m not messing with you.  If I put up a disclaimer on a blog, it’s because I am giving you […]
September 30, 2017

A Beautiful Ghanaian Woman With A 1st Class Qualification Status Cannot Be Trusted

In an ironic way, Prince Kofi Amoabeng, founder and Chief Executive Officer of UT Bank was quite right in his cynicism about the authenticity of the First class […]
September 24, 2017

An Open Letter To Married Men Chasing Single Women

Dear Married Men Chasing Single Women, Let me start with a resounding applause for daring to take the giant leap into the institution of marriage. My […]
September 19, 2017

Why are there are no manuals for men on how to handle a cheating wife or girlfriend?

Fellas, when was the last time you saw a manual about how we should react or act when our women cheat on us? I am at […]
September 18, 2017

Money For Sex; Sex For Money

Sex and money; money and sex.  Almost every culture on earth becomes engrossed in the pairing of these two subjects and for very good reasons. Dating […]
September 15, 2017

How The PepperDemMinistries Successfully Flipped The Script On Me

I’ve had countless conversations with women over the years. These conversations have ranged from terrible to terrific and everything in between.  Without a doubt, one of […]
September 14, 2017

The Whispers Of 3 Sexual Assault Victims In Ghana & The Men Who Got Away

The stories of most rape victims play out like the myth of Sisyphus in Greek mythology. A woman is sexually assaulted by a friend or a […]
September 9, 2017

Payback Can Be Sweet But Karma Is Not The Same Thing

I could not have picked a better time to discuss the true meaning of karma.  I have watched with keen interest as an inordinate amount of […]
September 5, 2017

I’m About To Delete People Off My Friends List & Other Unnecessary Posts On Facebook

While the cool people of the social media world have mostly migrated to other platforms like Instagram and Snapchat, there are still those of us stragglers who still […]
September 1, 2017

Akua Highly-Favored; A Medley Of Sex, Religion & Authenticity

She goes by Akua God-Creation as the first name and Highly-favored for the last name on Facebook. Catchy, isn’t it? How do you mistake a chick […]
August 26, 2017

Let Her Go

Hello there!  Thanks for clicking on my post. The title of the article made you curious, didn’t it? You are here to find out about letting […]
August 25, 2017

How About A 3 Some?

Disclaimer: The preceding article is intended for mature audiences only (excluded are the overly religious and those who take life too seriously).  Readers discretion is strongly […]
August 25, 2017

Three Is Not A Crowd In Bed: Or Is It?

Disclaimer: The preceding article is intended for mature audiences only (excluded are the overly religious and those who take life too seriously).  Readers discretion is strongly […]
August 24, 2017

My Pen is Up & Wants To Talk To You

My pen is a douchebag! Yeah, I know you heard me down there. I don’t really give a crap if your feelings are hurt. My pen […]
August 21, 2017

Is Celebrating The Achievements Of Women in Male-dominated Roles The Wrong Approach?

A few weeks ago, I sat back and observed with a touch of curiosity and amusement as the picture of a female aircraft mechanical engineer,  Fatima […]
August 8, 2017

3 Unbelievable Ways Some Women Go From Point “A” to Point “O”

Warning: this article contains strong language (which may be unsuitable for bible-toting adults),  unusual humor (which may be unsuitable for adults who take life too seriously), […]
August 6, 2017

Don’t Underestimate The Value Of Shitor To Bachelors

*Shitor is a hot pepper based preparation as a dark brown aromatic sauce or condiment dating back several years in its origin in Ghana. I had […]
August 6, 2017

“Marriage-Material” May No Longer Be A Compliment – A Male Perspective

I was having a relaxing Saturday evening lounging on my couch with a glass of Chardonnay until Efe Plange ruined it all for me.  Not cool, […]
August 3, 2017

Marriage; What’s The Point?

Disclaimer: Today, I chose to share some personal thoughts. Thoughts I hardly let out in the open so some may get offended. Don’t say I did […]
August 1, 2017

Sweet Surrender To Break Up Sex

We run out of love and things to say The bitterness crept up on us A mutual disintegration but it still hurts We had two torches; […]
July 31, 2017

A Cheater’s Dilemma & Confession: All Men Are Dogs

After reading the title of this article; 30% of my female readers went like, “Heck Yeah” and they liked the article without even opening it 40% […]
July 27, 2017

Her Selfie Poker

I have a rather controversial subject to tackle. I would like to make it clear from the start that I am merely giving my opinions on this […]
July 26, 2017

He Is “Just” A Friend: A Conversation With The Ladies

Disclaimer: I am about to rant and rave all in the name of fun. If you can’t take a joke, you are obviously reading the wrong […]
July 21, 2017

5 Things Men Do Not Wish To Hear During Sex

Back in the day, there was this joke in Ghana about a man blurting out that he will give all his cocoa farms to a woman he was in bed […]
July 18, 2017

Three Masculine Traits Women Respect The Most In Men

Fellas, do me a favor and slide your hand down your pants.  Do you feel that? They are called balls. It means you are a man […]
July 14, 2017

Christabel Ekeh Vs. Zynnel Zuh. Who Is Winning?

Disclaimer: Your brain will not improve after reading this article because you will learn absolutely nothing.  As always, if you have 5 minutes to spare, be […]
July 14, 2017

Why Do Women Check Their Behinds In The Mirror?

Disclaimer: If you take life too seriously, please do not read any further.  Have you noticed that most women stand on their toes, turn halfway and […]
July 13, 2017

Retroactive Jealousy: Is your past making your boyfriend or girlfriend jealous?

Have you heard of this one?  When you become jealous of the things your new girlfriend or boyfriend used to do, his or her established relationships […]