The Single Life

June 14, 2016

An Open Letter to My Married Friends

Dear My Married friends, Let me start by explaining that all my words are coming out of utmost love and respect for you. I am happy […]
June 20, 2016

I was not looking for the recipe for Palaver Sauce when I said hello to you on Facebook

Has this ever happened to you? You send a message to a young lady you came across on Facebook. You do so because she has caught […]
June 21, 2016

Young Single Ghanaian Lady found Dead – Single People Really Do Die Alone

When I engage in discussions and write about the dating world, I joke about how I’m going to die alone and no one will find me […]
June 23, 2016

Are We Making Love or Are We Having Sex?

I am still Single so I have subdued aggression in my eyes. I search but I never find. I have hurt in my veins. I hurt […]
July 4, 2016

Single And Awesome

Did you ask me why I am STILL single? I am so glad you asked. “It is not normal to be still single.” “Why are you still […]
July 14, 2016

The Problem With No Sex Before Marriage

“I have decided not to have sex until I am married.” Every now and then, I will meet a love interest who hits me with the […]
July 23, 2016

How Long Can You Go Without Sex?

“Wait, what? When was the last time you had sex again?” An uncomfortable hush falls over our dinner table. She just blurted out the answer but […]
August 16, 2016

How The Pressure to Get Married Finally Got To Me

I knew the questions were coming and I was beginning to feel the pressure weigh on me like heavy winter coat around my shoulders. I expected all […]
November 4, 2016

Most Important Things I learned After Being Single For A Year

I was hit with a stark realization today. A Chinese food buffet located 5 miles from my apartment building has mouth-watering fried plantain on the menu and […]
November 17, 2016

Why Do Women Reply Late to Text Messages Or Ignore You Altogether?

Women are a mystery! Oh man! Okay, that is a strong sentiment so permit me to rephrase. Most single women are really a mystery! For the […]
February 4, 2017

An Open Letter To Married Men Chasing Single Women

Dear Married Men Chasing Single Women, Let me start with a resounding applause for daring to take the giant leap into the institution of marriage. My […]
February 11, 2017

A Single’s Soliloquy for Valentine

There is a story I love to share with my friends. I made a trip to London one time where my twin brother was to celebrate […]
December 14, 2017

50 Reasons Not To Get Married: For My African Brothers Only

I’m an unapologetic bachelor and I’m sorry that I’m not sorry about my single lifestyle. If there’s anything my experiences have taught me, most married men regret […]