Reflections

November 25, 2017

Sex, Coffee & Attachment Anxieties: A Year In The Life Of An African Bachelor

I love sex and coffee and I have attachment anxiety issues. Seeking a committed relationship wasn’t on the list of my top priorities in 2017.  The […]
July 11, 2017

A Man And His Rambling Thoughts After A Few Glasses Of Wine

I am tipsy, I think, but I am not totally wasted; not yet at least. I was not blessed with a hollow leg and a few […]
June 23, 2017

The Girl Who Made Me Shiver

I Shivered! She actually made me shiver. I can’t quite fathom how she caused me to shiver the first time I laid eyes on her. I can’t […]
June 9, 2017

The Married Woman I Met At The A&C Mall in Accra

I made it to the A&C Mall in East Legon an hour early. My early arrival was not planned since my errands for the day was […]
May 28, 2017

10 Reasons Why Ghanaian Men Should Feel Lucky To Have The Most Unique, Gorgeous & Awesome Women In The World

Ghanaian women are the most coveted women on the planet in my opinion. A Ghanaian woman is, without a doubt, one of the most amazing and extraordinary […]
May 11, 2017

It’s My Birthday And I’m About To Hit It Bloggy Style!

The last time I remember actually looking forward to my birthday was at the tender age of seven. I am not trying to come off like […]
April 11, 2017

My Girlfriend is Cheating and I Just Found Out His Name

Discovering his first name was easy enough He goes by Sam Sam did not make a gradual entrance into our relationship; he was there from the […]
March 25, 2017

My Ex-Girlfriend Sent Me A Wedding Invitation

I recently received an invitation from an ex-girlfriend to her wedding. We did part ways on very good terms and became better friends after the separation. Our […]
February 11, 2017

A Single’s Soliloquy for Valentine

There is a story I love to share with my friends. I made a trip to London one time where my twin brother was to celebrate […]
January 25, 2017

She Said Yes! Invaluable Sight Of A Man In Love

I absolutely love this Mediterranean restaurant called Zov’s located on a corner down the street from my residence. I discovered Zov’s during one of my leisure […]
January 11, 2017

I Slept With A Voodoo Doll

I stared straight at you because you are a Voodoo doll It’s disingenuous of me to think you are mine to hold forever I don’t make […]
December 30, 2016

My First Time – This Thing Called Ghanaian Love

For me, it happened for the first time when I was 16 or 17. It was my first experience and I was confused. I wanted to […]
November 26, 2016

The Day Baaba Rejected Me – A Single Man’s Painful Rants About Unrequited Love

She was one of the most beautiful girls I had ever seen in my life. She was a ball of fire and she was mysterious with […]
November 4, 2016

Most Important Things I learned After Being Single For A Year

I was hit with a stark realization today. A Chinese food buffet located 5 miles from my apartment building has mouth-watering fried plantain on the menu and […]
October 6, 2016

Trying To Love Again With A Frozen Heart?

Hello frozen heart, it’s your old friend Out of the depths I come to talk to you once again They keep asking why you won’t come back and […]
September 6, 2016

Beautiful Messed Up Woman

You are a beautiful messed up woman You are a ghost I can see clear as day You are an enigma that I am dying to […]