Relationships

July 14, 2016

The Problem With No Sex Before Marriage

“I have decided not to have sex until I am married.” Every now and then, I will meet a love interest who hits me with the […]
October 5, 2016

The Top 5 Biggest Secrets Men Keep From Women

Ever wish you could rummage through the mind of a man to figure out what he is really thinking about? Do you wish to figure out what his silence or short answers really means? […]
November 4, 2016

Most Important Things I learned After Being Single For A Year

I was hit with a stark realization today. A Chinese food buffet located 5 miles from my apartment building has mouth-watering fried plantain on the menu and […]
November 17, 2016

Why Do Women Reply Late to Text Messages Or Ignore You Altogether?

Women are a mystery! Oh man! Okay, that is a strong sentiment so permit me to rephrase. Most single women are really a mystery! For the […]
November 26, 2016

The Day Baaba Rejected Me – A Single Man’s Painful Rants About Unrequited Love

She was one of the most beautiful girls I had ever seen in my life. She was a ball of fire and she was mysterious with […]
December 17, 2016

Why It’s Time to Stop Blaming Men for Being “Emotionally Unavailable”

When was the last time you wrote a love letter? Better still, when was the last time you received one? Ask friends, family, or any regular […]
January 4, 2017

I Am Pregnant

“I am pregnant.” The three words in the English dictionary most men dread the most when we are just on the dating scene. I like to call […]
January 19, 2017

How We React To A Couple Some Do Not Consider “Ideal”

I wanted to hold off writing this piece initially as the main subject, Ghanaian actress and movie producer Kafui Danku, has called for an end to […]
February 4, 2017

An Open Letter To Married Men Chasing Single Women

Dear Married Men Chasing Single Women, Let me start with a resounding applause for daring to take the giant leap into the institution of marriage. My […]
February 11, 2017

A Single’s Soliloquy for Valentine

There is a story I love to share with my friends. I made a trip to London one time where my twin brother was to celebrate […]
February 18, 2017

Friend With Benefits – My Experience With Ama

Disclaimer: If you are deeply religious or do not have an open mind, please do not read further as this might offend you. Please do not […]
March 3, 2017

Who Is Taking Screenshots Of Your Text Messages?

Am I a flirt? Most definitely!! I believe that I am an audacious, cheeky and charming flirt. I’ll admit to that. Who doesn’t flirt, though? If […]
March 9, 2017

The “Wobble Dance” Between Life and Death – The Plague of Suicides

To the heavy-hearted Angel who stepped off the ledge If there was a way to save time and moments in a bottle We would have frozen […]
March 10, 2017

How Many People Have You Had Sex With?

“How many people have you slept with?” I get this question every now and then from a date. My rule of thumb is this: don’t ask, don’t […]
March 11, 2017

10 Unspoken Bro Codes All Men Need to Know And Follow

I hate rules. Anyone who is close to me is aware of my hatred of rules. When you step out of your house, you enter a […]
March 25, 2017

My Ex-Girlfriend Sent Me A Wedding Invitation

I recently received an invitation from an ex-girlfriend to her wedding. We did part ways on very good terms and became better friends after the separation. Our […]