Dating

June 4, 2016

7 lessons my Ex-Girlfriends Taught Me

Ex-Boyfriends, Ex-Girlfriends, Ex-husbands, Ex-wives, Ex-Mistresses, Ex-Friends, Ex-Roommates and my personal favorite, Ex-Friends with benefits. The world is full of exes. We all are an Ex-Something to […]
June 23, 2016

Are We Making Love or Are We Having Sex?

I am still Single so I have subdued aggression in my eyes. I search but I never find. I have hurt in my veins. I hurt […]
July 14, 2016

The Problem With No Sex Before Marriage

“I have decided not to have sex until I am married.” Every now and then, I will meet a love interest who hits me with the […]
July 23, 2016

How Long Can You Go Without Sex?

“Wait, what? When was the last time you had sex again?” An uncomfortable hush falls over our dinner table. She just blurted out the answer but […]
November 4, 2016

Most Important Things I learned After Being Single For A Year

I was hit with a stark realization today. A Chinese food buffet located 5 miles from my apartment building has mouth-watering fried plantain on the menu and […]
November 17, 2016

Why Do Women Reply Late to Text Messages Or Ignore You Altogether?

Women are a mystery! Oh man! Okay, that is a strong sentiment so permit me to rephrase. Most single women are really a mystery! For the […]
November 26, 2016

The Day Baaba Rejected Me – A Single Man’s Painful Rants About Unrequited Love

She was one of the most beautiful girls I had ever seen in my life. She was a ball of fire and she was mysterious with […]
December 17, 2016

Why It’s Time to Stop Blaming Men for Being “Emotionally Unavailable”

When was the last time you wrote a love letter? Better still, when was the last time you received one? Ask friends, family, or any regular […]
December 29, 2016

Why African Women Are Increasingly Dating and Marrying White Men

“Me Broni” (my white person in Twi – Ghanaian local dialect) “Mara Me Broni” (my “own” white person in Twi ) “Tumtum Broni” (Black woman referred […]
December 30, 2016

My First Time – This Thing Called Ghanaian Love

For me, it happened for the first time when I was 16 or 17. It was my first experience and I was confused. I wanted to […]
January 25, 2017

She Said Yes! Invaluable Sight Of A Man In Love

I absolutely love this Mediterranean restaurant called Zov’s located on a corner down the street from my residence. I discovered Zov’s during one of my leisure […]
February 4, 2017

An Open Letter To Married Men Chasing Single Women

Dear Married Men Chasing Single Women, Let me start with a resounding applause for daring to take the giant leap into the institution of marriage. My […]
March 3, 2017

Who Is Taking Screenshots Of Your Text Messages?

Am I a flirt? Most definitely!! I believe that I am an audacious, cheeky and charming flirt. I’ll admit to that. Who doesn’t flirt, though? If […]
March 25, 2017

My Ex-Girlfriend Sent Me A Wedding Invitation

I recently received an invitation from an ex-girlfriend to her wedding. We did part ways on very good terms and became better friends after the separation. Our […]
April 11, 2017

My Girlfriend is Cheating and I Just Found Out His Name

Discovering his first name was easy enough He goes by Sam Sam did not make a gradual entrance into our relationship; he was there from the […]
April 13, 2017

How Would You Know If His Size Measures Up Before You Commit?

I’ll start by cutting to the chase here. Most women, when considering a new man are interested in the size of three things; the size of […]